Didn’t see this coming a year ago…
Tonight, I’m chilling at home alone with a stack of books and a laptop next to me. My girlfriend is off to a local kink munch to meet new people on her own and I’m amazingly, remarkably, totally okay with it. I daresay I’m happy for her to be going out and meeting people. No tightness in my chest, no anxiety, just contented calmness. We crossed paths when I got home after work and I kissed her goodbye and saw her off before hopping in the bathtub.
Things seem to be going well on the dating another person front for me too. I’ve been seeing the same girl (superhero name: science-girl) for over a month and while schedules have been tight, I’ve really been enjoying the time we spend together. She has her head screwed on straight and loves cuddles as much as I do.
She and my girlfriend have met now and each seems to think highly of the other, so that’s also a good thing =).
I’ve also gotten back into pursuing my own hobbies which is another source of happiness.
I leave for vacation to a warm beach in less than a week.
Work is not too crazy and I’m very close to completing a first revision of a solo project!
I have absolutely nothing to complain about at the moment. =D